The NBA should be grateful for Steve Nash

The Human Rights Campaign issued a statement about two hours ago that shows that not all NBA players are callous homophobes.

NBA legend Steve Nash has partnered with HRC in a new video for the group’s New Yorkers for Marriage Equality campaign. In the video, Nash talks about the growing number of professional athletes who are speaking out in support of marriage equality, saying, “I’m proud to be one of them.”  The video can be viewed at www.hrc.org/NY4marriage.

Nash stands out from the rest of his league for his progressive impulses — which he has never shied away from. As much as Kobe Bryant and Joachim Noah deserve the opprobrium sent their way, Nash deserves gratitude and respect.

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Another day another slur in the NBA

In the macho culture of American sports, it’s apparently OK to shout homophobic slurs. I don’t mean that it is approved or condoned by the league — $100,000 fine to Kobe Bryant shows where the league stands on it — but just one month after the Bryant incident comes one involving Bulls power-forward Joakim Noah.

The exchange occurred after Noah was whistled for his second foul with more than six minutes remaining in the first quarter. Noah was whistled for an over the back call after attempting to tap in a Carlos Boozer miss. Noah came from behind Heat forward LeBron James to tap the ball near the cylinder and made contact with his body. After briefly arguing the call, Noah headed straight for the Bulls bench and began barking at someone seated behind him and to his right.

Noah then appeared to yell a string of profanities and finished with what appears to be the exact phrase that Bryant was fined for using. The only difference: Noah was not addressing one of the officials.

The league has a problem, whether it wants to admit it or not, and fines are not going to be enough to fix it.

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It is about being gay

Rutgers student Tyler Clementi committed suicide after being outed by his roommate. State laws have been passed recently to help prevent bullying.

The Tyler Clementi suicide was devastating — an example of how gay teens continue to be subjected to brutality, invasions of privacy and an array of intrusions that would not be tolerated were they done to any other group.

So the announcement of an indictment of the Plainsboro teen accused of videotaping Clementi with another male teen and then streaming it on another computer has led to praise from gay-rights groups and the Clementi family.

Steven Goldstein, head of Garden State Equality, the largest gay rights organization in the state, wrote in a statement that the indictment sends a clear message to bullies across the state and Ravi’s actions were anything but a college prank gone awry.

“Today’s indictment, when combined with the recently enacted anti-bullying law which Garden State Equality steered to enactment – widely considered the strongest anti-bullying law in the country – will have an appropriate chilling effect on bullies everywhere,” he wrote.

“We continue to mourn the loss of Tyler Clementi deeply. Today is a day of justice,” he added.

Dharun Ravi, 19, was indicted on two counts of invasion of privacy, two counts of attempted invasion of privacy, two counts of seond-degree bias crimes, two counts of third-degree bias crimes. three counts of tampering with evidence, three counts of hindering his own apprehension and one count of witness tampering.

According to The Star-Ledger,

Grand jurors found Ravi attempted to mislead investigators and witnesses in various way, Kaplan said. He said the grand jury determined Ravi deleted a post on Twitter that alerted others to view Clementi and another man during their second encounter in a university dorm room on Sept. 21, 2010.   Ravi also tried to convince witnesses not to testify against him and provided investigators with misleading information, Kaplan said.

Authorities say Ravi used a computer in another room to activate a hidden webcam in his dorm room in Davidson Hall, on the Busch campus in Piscataway, on Sept. 19, 2010, and streamed images of his roommate with another man. Ravi allegedly tried to spy on the roommate again two days later using the hidden webcam.

Listening to the yahoos on 101.5, however, makes it clear that there remains a huge number of people

in this state who view homosexuality as a choice and that gays should be treated to fewer protections than the rest of us.

Callers making the claim that this only became a big deal because it involved a gay student were right, but for the wrong reasons. This became a big deal — and was a bias crime — because the alleged videotaping was done as part of an antigay prank, a tactic designed to intimidate Clementi.

Critics are right when they say Ravi did not make Clementi commit suicide, but that’s beside the point. Ravi is not charged with manslaughter; he is charged with the series of activities that led up to the suicide, which would have warranted indictment even had Clementi not taken his life.

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    Civil rights for gays and lesbians!

    Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell is history and gays and lesbians can serve in the military — not a great choice, but one that confers on them the full rights of citizenship. Well, all but one right — it’s time to move forward and legalize same-sex marriage.

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    A civil rights Christmas present for LGBTs

    The Senate is now on the precipice of history. By a 63-33 vote, the Senate has ended debate on repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, sending it to a Senate vote and the likely passage of a repeal.

    When that happens, and when it is signed by President Obama into law, lesbians and gays will no longer be forced to serve their country from the closet. They will have full citizenship rights.

    That’s really what this has been about.

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