I can only imagine the pain that the family of Kylie Pinheiro (pictured) is going through today as they bury the 18-year-old college student who was killed in a car accident last week. I can only imagine because I do not have any kids, though I have numerous nieces and nephews — including three of driving age — and I can’t fathom how my siblings and their spouses or my wife’s siblings and their spouses might deal with a tragedy of this magnitude.
I am not a big user of the word tragedy, as a general rule. I tend to limit its use to the Aristotlian use, tied to Greek drama and the notion that the hero meets his end through his own imperfections.
But the horrific nature of what has happened here, the unnecessary loss of life, the too-soon ending that could have been prevented.
The driver of the car that struck the one in which Kylie was traveling — Kimberly Green, 32, of Somerset — has been charged with aggravated manslaughter and two counts of aggravated assault. Assistant Middlesex County Prosecutor Nicholas Sewitch says Ms. Green tested at a .159 blood-alcohol level — nearly twice the legal limit. She faces up to 30 years on the manslaughter charge and up to 10 years each on the assault changes, if convicted.
Ms. Green, according to The Home News-Tribune, is a single mother of two, making this all the more tragic. She has pleaded not guilty.
The thing that strikes me about this is that it did not have to happen. The lives that been shattered by this — Kylie’s, her family and friends’, Ms. Green and her children’s, did not need to be shattered. Accidents like this never need to happen. We all should know better, as we say in our editorial this week.
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Hank Kalet 