Ceremonial questions

The Record of Bergen County asked an interesting question last week of the mayors in its coverage area — an idea on which we decided to piggyback: Should the state Legislature OK the proposed civil-union rules (as it is expected to do today), will mayors actually perform the ceremonies?

Several mayors in Bergen County — including right-winger Steve Lonegan of Bogota — said no.
That, according ot the story, would leave the mayors in violation of state antidiscrimination law. The remedies are unclear — probably litigation, which would not help the couples looking to unite.

Unlike members of the clergy, who cannot be compelled to violate their religious beliefs, mayors and other non-clergy empowered to perform marriages in New Jersey cannot pick and choose who they marry — or civil unionize.

As The Record points out, elected officials have “taken an oath to uphold state law, which since 1992 has banned discrimination based on sexual orientation.”

“If you are a judge or a mayor or other person in New Jersey who does not want to perform any kind of [homosexual] relationship-recognizing ceremony, you’re going to be in a bind,” said Sally Goldfarb, a Rutgers law professor and expert on New Jersey constitutional law.

The easiest route for objectors, she said, would be to stop officiating all together.

“The law authorizes these people to perform marriages. It doesn’t require them,” she said. “They’re going to have to, I think, either celebrate these relationships for everybody or for nobody.”

What kind of effect this may have is unclear, because couples do not have to register in their own communities and because there are others who can conduct the ceremony.

But it is a question worth asking.

We put the question to several local mayors (we have four in our coverage area) and received responses from South Brunswick Mayor Frank Gambatese and Jamesburg Mayor Tony LaMantia. Both were somewhat uncomfortable answering the question, with Mayor Gambatese declining ultimately comment. Mayor LaMantiam however, told our reporter, Joseph Harvie, that

he would perform a same-sex ceremony if the law is approved. “Just as any wedding, it would have to be at my convenience,” Mayor LaMantia said. “As long as it’s the law, I’d do it. Everyone has their own opinion. I have my opinion, but if it’s a law then, you know.”

At least he acknowledged his responsibility under the law. That’s more than can be said about many of the folks up north.

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Where the rent is always due

Anyone who lives in the region knows just how true this story is:

New Jersey remains one of the least affordable states in the nation for those who rent their homes, according to an annual report released by housing advocates yesterday.

The nonprofit Housing and Community Development Network of New Jersey said more than half of the over 1 million tenants in the state cannot afford the average cost of a two-bedroom apartment.

To gauge affordability, the organization uses the widely accepted measure that no more than 30 percent of a person’s income should be spent on housing. By that standard, 51 percent of the state’s renters cannot afford the statewide average rent of $1,103 a month for a two-bedroom apartment, the report said.

The problem is worse in 10 of the 21 counties, including Essex County where 59 percent cannot afford the average rent of $1,063 for a two-bedroom. Hunterdon, Middlesex and Somerset are the most expensive counties for renters with an average cost of $1,257.

Looked at another way, it now takes a wage of $21.21 per hour, or $44,112 per year, to afford the statewide average two-bedroom rent without spending more than 30 percent of income. That makes New Jersey the fourth least-affordable state for renters behind Hawaii, California and Massachusetts. New York ranks fifth.

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Shameless self-promotion:Poetry at the library

A little plug for the poetry series I’ve helped organize at the South Brunswick Library. It will take place at 2 p.m. on Sunday, Dec. 17, and feature none other than yours truly.

Here is the release issued by the Arts Commission:

Six poets from South Brunswick, all with their own distinctive styles, will read from their respective collections of works when the South Brunswick Arts Commission presents, The Poets of South Brunswick, at 2 p.m., Sunday, Dec. 17, in the Public Library.

The program is part of a series of Sunday afternoon poetry readings sponsored by the South Brunswick Arts Commission in cooperation with the South Brunswick Public Library.

The participating poets are Ed Belding, Adam Fitzgerald, Ink, Hank Kalet, Joyce Greenberg Lott and Shandy Walton. In addition, there also will be a reading of poems written by the late Judah Jacobowitz, a longtime South Brunswick resident.

Ed Belding is the author of numerous poetry chapbooks focused on historical events in and around Central Jersey. Belding taught social studies for 19 years in New Brunswick High School until 2000, when he became an administrator at the school. A longtime South Brunswick resident, Belding’s complete collection of poetic chapbooks is available to borrow from the South Brunswick Library.

Adam Fitzgerald’s work has appeared in print and online in The Modern Review, Stylus, Tom’s Garland, Black Swan and Body Parts, which he currently co-edits with fellow New Jersey poet Joe Weil. A graduate of South Brunswick High School, Fitzgerald has been featured at the Barron Arts Center, the Fanwood Cultural Art Center and the Brookline Booksmith.

The poet Ink draws from his experiences in central New Jersey, where he can be found hugging perfect-bound and loose leaves alike as if they are not paper-cut-capable. Ink says he writes because he has to, and submits to journals infrequently because he’s lazy about postage…and mailing…and rejection. With a sense of humor as twisted as his word-choice, Ink delights in putting readers into his slightly askew, circa 1985 Reebok Hi-Tops, and walking. His poems are as easy to read as they are to understand as they are to enjoy. Published in a few journals worldwide as Andrew Feindt, he has a disorganized website at geocities.com/inkyscribbles and four self-printed chapbooks: “Drinking Coke & Smoke with Beer on the Table” (2000), “Tripped Tongues & Fallen Cases” (2003), “Inanimates” (2004), and “Words that Should Never Be Said (…to a woman)” (2006).

Shandy Walton is a writer, a South Brunswick High School graduate and a US Air Force Veteran. In August, Ms. Walton was a featured poet at the Barron Arts Center in Woodbridge, along with Dave Lancet. She also was featured at the East Orange Public Library in East Orange. She has participated in the Rhode Island Scholar Athlete Games for creative writing and also received a merit award from the National Foundation of the Arts for creative writing. She’s an avid member of ACT-SO, the Cultural, Technological, Academic, and Scientific Olympics — sponsored by the NAACP. In 2001, she won the Rutgers Newark Geraldine Dodge Foundation poetry contest. And Ms. Walton has spoken at Word Stock, a benefit for the funding of the African AIDS struggle.

Hank Kalet is a longtime South Brunswick resident and 1980 graduate of South Brunswick High School. He is the author of the chapbook, “Suburban Pastoral,” and the editor of The Other Half, a literary journal published by Voices of Reason, which uses poetry and music to raise money and awareness of hunger issues in Central New Jersey. Mr. Kalet is managing editor of the South Brunswick Post and the Cranbury Press. He is also a political columnist for the Progressive Populist. His poetry and journalism have been published in dozens of small-press journals and magazines, including Big Hammer, The Journal of New Jersey Poets, the Writer’s Gallery, Big Scream, the Aquarian Weekly, the Free Press and City Belt.

Joyce Greenberg Lott taught at South Brunswick High School for 25 years. Her essays, poems and stories have appeared in the Journal of New Jersey Poets, Ms. Magazine, The Paterson Literary Review, The Times, The Writer’s Chronicle, Writing on the Edge and other journals. She won third prize in the Allen Ginsberg Poetry Award and was a finalist for the Ragdale Foundation’s Frances Shaw Fellowship. She is the author of A Teacher’s Stories, Reflections on High School Writers and a contributor to the anthology, “Proposing on the Brooklyn Bridge: Poems About Marriage.” Her chapbook, “Dear Mrs. Dalloway,” was published in July, 2004, by Finishing Line Press. In September of this year, Garrison Keillor read one of her poems on public radio.

All of the readings will be followed by an open reading.

“South Brunswick has produced some exceptional literary talent,” said Jeff Leebaw, Chairman of the Arts Commission. “We’re delighted that so many of our home town poets have agreed to come together to read for us.”

Admission to the program is free, though a donation of a non-perishable food item to be given to the South Brunswick Food Pantry is encouraged.

The Sunday poetry readings are scheduled through April of 2007: Jan. 21, Cool Women; Feb. 18, Charles Johnson; March 18, Daniel Zimmerman; April 15, Laura Boss. Readings for May and June will be announced at a later date.

For more information, including directions, contact the South Brunswick Arts Commission at (732) 329-4000, ext 7635.

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Johnson suffers stroke

This story is unfortunate for a number of reasons. First, because of the very real effect this could have on U.S. Sen. Tim Johnson (D-S.D.) and his family. But also because it could lead to Sen. Johnson’s resignation from the Senate — putting the responsibility for appointing a successor in the hands of the state’s Republican governor. That means that the Democrats’ one-seat majority could disappear, nullifying the public’s repudiation of the GOP majority.

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