It is about being gay

Rutgers student Tyler Clementi committed suicide after being outed by his roommate. State laws have been passed recently to help prevent bullying.

The Tyler Clementi suicide was devastating — an example of how gay teens continue to be subjected to brutality, invasions of privacy and an array of intrusions that would not be tolerated were they done to any other group.

So the announcement of an indictment of the Plainsboro teen accused of videotaping Clementi with another male teen and then streaming it on another computer has led to praise from gay-rights groups and the Clementi family.

Steven Goldstein, head of Garden State Equality, the largest gay rights organization in the state, wrote in a statement that the indictment sends a clear message to bullies across the state and Ravi’s actions were anything but a college prank gone awry.

“Today’s indictment, when combined with the recently enacted anti-bullying law which Garden State Equality steered to enactment – widely considered the strongest anti-bullying law in the country – will have an appropriate chilling effect on bullies everywhere,” he wrote.

“We continue to mourn the loss of Tyler Clementi deeply. Today is a day of justice,” he added.

Dharun Ravi, 19, was indicted on two counts of invasion of privacy, two counts of attempted invasion of privacy, two counts of seond-degree bias crimes, two counts of third-degree bias crimes. three counts of tampering with evidence, three counts of hindering his own apprehension and one count of witness tampering.

According to The Star-Ledger,

Grand jurors found Ravi attempted to mislead investigators and witnesses in various way, Kaplan said. He said the grand jury determined Ravi deleted a post on Twitter that alerted others to view Clementi and another man during their second encounter in a university dorm room on Sept. 21, 2010.   Ravi also tried to convince witnesses not to testify against him and provided investigators with misleading information, Kaplan said.

Authorities say Ravi used a computer in another room to activate a hidden webcam in his dorm room in Davidson Hall, on the Busch campus in Piscataway, on Sept. 19, 2010, and streamed images of his roommate with another man. Ravi allegedly tried to spy on the roommate again two days later using the hidden webcam.

Listening to the yahoos on 101.5, however, makes it clear that there remains a huge number of people

in this state who view homosexuality as a choice and that gays should be treated to fewer protections than the rest of us.

Callers making the claim that this only became a big deal because it involved a gay student were right, but for the wrong reasons. This became a big deal — and was a bias crime — because the alleged videotaping was done as part of an antigay prank, a tactic designed to intimidate Clementi.

Critics are right when they say Ravi did not make Clementi commit suicide, but that’s beside the point. Ravi is not charged with manslaughter; he is charged with the series of activities that led up to the suicide, which would have warranted indictment even had Clementi not taken his life.

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    There is the story and there is reality

    Americans, the story goes, are tea-partiers. They want government slashed, taxes cut, have no faith in anything that government does. There is little evidence of this, of course, as Rachel Maddow pointed out last night — recent tea party events have been sparsely attended while the protests in Wisconsin, Ohio and Michigan in favor of union rights, and others backing other more progressive policies have been much larger.

    Efforts like this, from the Coalition for Peace Action in Princeton, while far from scientific, offer evidence of our support for things like health care and education.

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    Change for a dollar, maybe, but not a change in our use of force

    The last few decades offer a depressing fact: We are addicted to military force. Presidents of both political parties have shown they’re unwillingness to take the military option off the table. Hell, they won’t even relegate the use of force to a last-resort option.

    Even Barack Obama, who won the peace vote based on one speech made in opposition to the Iraq War back in 2002, has proven to be just as addicted to the military option as his predecessors.

    The Iraq War has been declared over, but we’re still there. Afghanistan has been amped up and now we are fighting with the French and British in Libya in an ill-defined mission — we talk about protecting civilians but are most likely engaged in an effort to remove the despicable and murderous Qaddafi regime from power.

    Protection of civilians, of course, is a ruse — if it were our primary objective, we would have gone into the Ivory Coast to back a legally elected president and end a civil war that has seen atrocities committed on both sides.

    So why Libya? The only reason I can come up with is that Qaddafi’s hold on the western imagination was on a par with Saddam Hussein’s — unstable, violent and brutal with a long history of thumbing his nose at the west.

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    Quote of the Day: Obama’s failure

    The quote of the day comes from columnist Bill Boyarsky, talking about President Barack Obama’s prevent-defense approach to governing:

    It’s hard to rally behind a man who appears willing to give up his principles in order to keep his job.

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    More than a humanitarian action

    I am hoping that, at some point, cooler heads will prevail and someone will ask the right question about Libya: How deep is the international community willing to dig itself into the civil war?

    I should state up front that I believe the Qaddafi regime needs to be chased from power, but doing so with Western military power is likely to fail longterm, exacerbating mistrust of the west in the Muslim world.

    The no-fly zone needs to be considered within this context. No matter what we say, it is a declaration of war on the part of the West. We have taken sides militarily, which means we are in this thing for the long haul.

    Contrast this with our conscious decision not to take sides in Egypt or in Yemen until recently, a decision based solely on their autocratic leaders being our allies. Qaddafi, of course, is not and has not been — and only in the last few years has he even been considered a part of the international community.

    I’ll be honest: I’m not sure what can be done to protect the rebels, but the no-fly zone has been a terrible idea and what is likely to follow as this thing drags on is likely to be worse.

    We have to stop fooling ourselves. This is not a humanitarian action.

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